How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 03:02
Ask yourself:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Why can't hot girls date ugly guys? I am ugly but I want an attractive girlfriend
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What are some cool confidence hacks?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Why do narcissists avoid talking about the real issues?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What are the most common signs that a partner will cheat before it happens?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Which bands became massively popular for covering songs rather than recording originals?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Did another parent ever tell you something about your child that you didn’t know?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What I need from you?
Why would my husband cheat on me with an ugly fat woman?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
That's it for today.
Procrastinates a lot.
Why The Simpsons stopped producing Maude Flanders episodes?
Does not procrastinate.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Do narcissists love their children?
Making more friends is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.